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- My Transformation Journey -

Loving YOurself Isn’t Selfish:

How to Stop Internalizing Emotions and Persevere Against All Odds

This past year has really been about transformation... with me unleashing my voice and leaving a job after 13 years. I was in a very toxic environment and I wasn't going anywhere but down. I was burnt out and sick, both physically and mentally. I didn't have any boundaries in place or know what they even looked like. I didn’t stand up for myself, take care of myself or do anything to get me out of that situation. At the end of the day, it was just me. No one was there for me. No one had my best interests in mind. They only cared that I kept getting things done for them.

When I finally had the courage to leave, it was a very defining moment of releasing my deeply rooted feelings of ‘people pleasing and silencing myself’.

Once I turned that corner for myself, I wanted so many people to know how to do that for themselves.

If only someone would have taken me by the shoulders early on and said "Girl! What are you doing? You need to get out of this NOW!” I didn't have that and that’s why I support other young women who are looking for clarity, and a way to implement their boundaries.

My book title “Loving Yourself Isn’t Selfish” brings up so many ‘ah-ha thoughts’ for me. For example, I don't have to 'do for other people' in order to find my happiness. I can do things for myself. It's okay to do things for myself, and it's okay to take a break. It's also okay to say no to other people. It's not a selfish thing.

In fact, it's perfectly okay to be SELFISH for yourself. I know you’ll enjoy my story.

 

What People Are Saying

★★★★★

“Chelle, your book reminds me how important it is to put boundaries in place. When we don’t, we face the risk of high anxiety and even burnout. I could really relate to your people pleasing tendencies and taking on more than I needed to in order to be accepted and liked. When I read the part of your story about being on the floor at work, bawling your eyes out in ‘fetal position’, I really felt your pain. It’s so interesting how our self-care takes a back seat as we attempt to impress others.”

- Jennifer B.


★★★★★

“Lessons learned and shared will make you evaluate your own courage. Reflective and expressive, Chelle writes with passion while allowing herself to be empowered.”

- Big C.


★★★★★

"Chelle brings out the most important aspect of self love which has been conditioned in us as being selfish. In her book, she reminds us that “Quitting just means you're moving on to the next thing”.

Chelle teaches her readers how important it is to know boundaries for self and set them. I really enjoyed reading her powerful story of transformation. Her journey of stepping into entrepreneurship and taking on an “I am enough” mindset was so heart warming for me."

- Nimisha C.


★★★★★

"Chelle Shapiro gives us permission to love ourselves unconditionally. She goes through common objections, explains, educates and teaches that ‘loving ourselves isn't selfish.’"

- Anna S.

 You can stop internalizing emotions and persevere against all odds.

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